December 08, 2005

Gone!

Ce n'est qu'un aurevoir!!!

Hey hey hey!!!! Finally moved here. Been having too much trouble with this rent. Am even being offered interior relooking where am moving!!!!

Bye Bye blog.com! here I come blosgpot!!!

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December 07, 2005

Deménagement.....?

 Thinking about thinking to move on to blogger.... cooler, almost everyone i know is there.....
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December 05, 2005

Tv-ism

*M*  says that quote was too easy and apart her nobody else knew who the quote was from. It's a Tracy Chapman. Songs are too easy anyway, I have another idea. A great one.

Here's how it goes. Am going to write the first paragraph for a story. The first one to comment writes the paragraph which follows and so on. I should be getting less than 10 paragraphs including the Intro and Conclusion from the which is about the number of persons who comment on my blog (I love you!!!)!
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December 01, 2005

Non-monstromeme and Compet.

 lol!I guess my “monstromeme” as Heather calls it, saturated you all. And since I haven't been posting much lately this “littlun” is giving me a good excuse to put my what-am-supposed-to-be-doing-at-this-moment-tasks aside.

Before I start my meme, here a compet. I want you to tell me who sings:


Don't be tempted by the shiny apple

Don't you eat of a bitter fruit

Hunger only for a taste of justice

Hunger only for a world of truth

'Cause all that you have is your soul”

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November 22, 2005

Thank you!

Neil Le Grand said:

"Today, it is all about GIVING THANKS.

How can we thank our fellow BLOGGERS? 

We read each other, we help each other with our designs and templates, and we cry on each other’s shoulder when a "blog crush" goes sour.

On Thanskgiving, we should THANK our fellow bloggers.

When I first started blogging, I was like a Pilgrim who just landed on Plymouth Rock.  I was isolated and alone.   For weeks, I wrote this blog without any direction or confidence in my ability.  And then he appeared — like the Native American with his corn — my first commenter!"

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November 18, 2005

On Thursdays the MBC - Mauritius Braodcasting corporation - spares us Hindi movies. At least on Channel 3. The Hindi movie is still run, but on MBC 1. On MBC 2 they give you at least 4 time reruns of the same movie every year. This Thursday was the second rerun for Edwards Scissor Hands. I like the movie but there was better on Channel 3. My favourite émission. ça se discute. It literally means "It is discussed." It's a French Program.

 

Does enjoying this program tell something about me? Am starting to wonder. It's such a sad program really. The themes are almost never fun. Children with incurable diseases. Suicide. Murder. Always tragic and sad. This week's too was no different. Family problems were discussed. All families have problems you'll tell me. I know. Still it was really painful listening to what some of the invités had to say.

 

There was this 15years old girl who had a lot to say about her father. she does neither consider nor think of him as her father. She does not call him Daddy, Dad, Papa. She doesn't call him at all since they do not speak to each other. When talking about him she says "the genitor". She says she doesn't hate him. No. She just does not feel anything for him. that's indifference and believe me, its worst that hate. The father seems to feel the same too about her. Or is it not feel instead?...

 

She says the genitor never ever held her, never kissed her, never hugged her, never talked to her. as far as she can recall. The mother is sitting next to her and quietly nods from time to time. She's contemplating divorce, the mother. She says hubby is never gonna change. When asked whether the situation has been going on for long, how long she'd been married and how come she stayed with hubby, she said it's been going on for too long. She's been married 17 years and she always had the hope that things would eventually change and that she'd just e in denial. Now she's leaving with her daughters. Yes, she has two girls. But Dad is fine with the younger one. The mother says its ironic because her elder daughter is so much like the father. same height, same coloring, same passions, same everything. I personally don't know but maybe that's where the problems lays, what do you say?

 

The mother narrates an anecdote. She and the kids went to her parents for a couple of weeks. The father was there at la gare de train to pick them up. He nodded at the mother, kissed the little girl and proceed. The elder daughter might as well have not existed. I almost cried. There's nothing as bad as being royally ignored like that and be looked through.

 

Another guy told the audience about how he'd had DNA tests conducted to find out whether BOTH his parents, were actually his parents. He felt unrelated to them.

 

Such thinks make you think. they make you grateful for your family. make you grateful for each smile exchanged. They make you realise how much you've come to take your family's love for granted. They make you appreciate the family in question. They make you think about voicing out your feelings and telling your loved ones how much they mean to you. They make you strong enough to show your need for them.

 And what is fear of need but need itself?

Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, the thirst that is unquenchable?

(Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet)

 A family is all about loving and fightingand making up and fighting and making up and loving. there are six of us. Four sisters and two rothers. Fight we do. Always. it's fun. And when it'll rain someday, I'll be assured that someone will be there to stand the rain with me.

 


My recent coup de coeur is for Neil's blog. Heather, thanks a lot. I enjoyed his Too Skinny post tremendously. Reading it finally made realize how much I love me. :-) The curves, the fat, the round cheeks, the Bee-hind (hehehe!) I love it all!

 

Here's MOI!

BTW, everybody go check Neil's last post. He has a certain problem in the bedroom department. ;-)

Suley, no one would play xylophone on MY chest!

 

Bon Week end!

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November 17, 2005

Mumbo jumbo...

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I've been really busy lately. No time to post anything really intelligent.

Check out this blog. Free dietician advices for anyone interested.

BTW Neela, I can't comment on your posts because I don't have a blogspot account. It says it does not recognise anonymous comments or something of that sort.

Do you know anything about the Scarsdale Diet? Deficiencies it may cause?


Am reading Michael Crichton. Suley , Great Saphenous  , am sure you guys are going to love this one. It's called Timeline. I've just started it and am enjoying it lots. I don't think its J*'s   sort of litterature, mais ont ne sait jamais......

That's all for today folks!

 

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November 11, 2005

Dieting: The triumph of mind over platter.

I visited my favourite site today. It's been a while. Its one of those rare always-brings-smile-to-your-face-full-of-real-jokes-sites.

I had a coup de coeur for the diet jokes. Am on diet. Been a week now and no,I  don't know how much I've lost. Not yet. I don't want to end up discouraged when getting on the balance. I'll weight myself in another week time.

I think its psychological with me. I don't always feel overweight and I just have to start dieting to feel thinner. Why is that? Psychological.... My sister loses weight so quick its a sin. *Sigh* And like I've mentionned somewhere, I hate grapefruit in the morning. I had 1/2 a grapefruit this morning. The diet said I should.

According to a weight chart I read, I must weigh around 20kgs less. I believe, I'd disappear if I ever do. But maybe I should forget the diet and just follow this rule: "There's only one way to look thin: hang out with fat people." *Sigh*


 


:-)
"Everything I do is either illegal, immoral, or fattening."
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He once went on a diet. Three hundred farmers declared bankruptcy."
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He believes in a balanced diet: a beer in each hand."
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A successful diet is the triumph of mind over platter."
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Inside me lives a skinny woman crying to get out. But I can usually shut her up with cookies."
Brain cells come and brain cells go, but fat cells live forever.
"He was so fat that he could only play seek."
Balanced Diet: What you eat at buffet suppers.
Dieting: The penalty for exceeding the feed limit.
Fat: Energy gone to waist.
Obesity: A surplus gone to waist.
Overweight: Just desserts.
Reducing: Wishful shrinking.
"New Study of Obesity Looks for Larger Test Group."
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It's easy to distract fat people. It's a piece of cake."


Building Your Shoulder Muscles – Secret Weightlifting Program
This weightlifting program will have you lifting 50-LB weights in weeks!

For those of us getting along in years, here is a little secret for building your arm and shoulder muscles.

You might want to adopt this 3 days a week. This is for older people. Younger people try it at their own risk. This is working well for me.

Begin by standing straight, with a 5-LB. potato sack in each hand. Extend your arms straight out from your sides and hold them there as long as you can. Try to reach a full minute. Relax.

After a few weeks, move up to 10-LB. potato sacks, and then 20-LB.potato sacks, and eventually try to get to where you can lift a 50-LB. potato sack in each hand and hold your arms straight out for more than a full minute.

After you feel confident at that level, start putting a couple of potatoes in the bags...


Five Stages of a Female's Life

 

1. To Grow Up


2. To Fill Out


3. To Slim Down


4. To Hold It In


And


5. To Heck with it...

 


This one if off subject but just wanted to share the smile!

Library’s No-Return Policy

 

A man goes into a library and asks for a book on suicide.
The librarian says, “Get lost! You won’t bring it back.” :-)

 


There's alot more from where the jokes come from.

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November 08, 2005

And then.................

I was running late for work this morning. Slept late. Getting out of bed was tough. Under the shower I had a giggling fit. Not due to my nervosity. I remembered an episode of my time back in school in Côte d'Ivoire.
 
Most of you know of the story of English and Moi by now. The reason I didn't relate this particular episode is because I was still in the dark about some... aspects of it.
 
To refresh and enlighten those of you who don't know about it, I started studying the English language during my "6ème" - first class of the secondary level. Yes, that's when I started my ABCD's.
 
One day, Monsieur Anglais came to class carrying a heavy book. He laid it on his table, sat down and instructed us "I am going to read and every time I pose, you say "And Then!" Ok?!! What do you say?" He asked, to make sure we'd gotten it right "And thennnnnnnnn!!!" we all said in unison. 
 
Monsieur even brought a bottle of water along. He'd read, read, read and then pose and look at us and we'd say "And thennnnnnnnn!!!". He'd nod, beam, sip some water and proceed.
 
We thought it was a test and that maybe he was going to mark us or something. That maybe we'd get special marks for pronouncing "And then" well. We started competing over saying "And then". Some were screaming "And then" whenever he'd pose. Some others were trying sopranos or others. It was great. But with the passing minutes the "And thens" were getting longer and longer. Stretching. "And theeeeeenn!" became Annnnnnndddddddddddd Thennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!" We were tired of repeating something which's meaning we did not know at something being read which we couldn't understand. 
 
This morning, under the shower, it suddenly hit me. Monsieur Anglais had been reading us a story.
 

Good looks catch the eyes but Good Personality catches the heart. You are blessed with both! Flattered? Don't be, it was said to me and I just wanted you to know. :--)
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October 31, 2005

MRTC* and Festivals

MRTC - Mainly replying To Comments......

cmhl said: "it is hard when it seems like ALL of your friends are getting married== been there, done that."

Actually that's not what I find to be the hardest. I don't envy them. Am not an envious person. What I find very hard is the way their new lives change our relationships. Mine with them. We don't talk anymore, let alone meet. Does having a beau mean cutting off friends. I don't think so. But that's how it works around here. We don't talk anymore let alone meet and do girl stuff. And I guess its better that way because those I meet are never alone. Hubby is there. How do you maintain a conversation with someone who isn't listening to you, who is being kissed, hugged, looked at les yeux dans les yeux all while you're trying to maintain the conversation? I can tell you, there's nothing as bad as feeling like the third wheel.... They say Misfortune shows those who are not really friends, I guess here its quite the opposite....

Heather said: "I think people stand a much better chance of a good marriage if they wait till 25/27 depending on their maturity. Some are ready sooner...I am not saying I am right, just opining here."

You're definitely right. I don't know whether it is a proved fact but women have more maturity than men the same age. Am I right?

Suley said: "Marriage. I'm your age and I'm not married, nor have I ever been married. Maybe it's different in Mauritius, though. It's not something I think about much, although I'm not opposed to marriage. I'm just much too poor to be married right now."

:-) lol! It's interesting though, that comment about being too poor to be married. Why? I may be mistaken  but it's the poor who normally jump into marriage early. I guess it's because getting a daughter or a son off their hands kind of reduces the burdens of the head of the family. Also wedding a salary earner can considerably reduce financial problems. 

There's a poor woman who one of my neighbours took pity on and allowed her and her kids to live in their garage. They travel a lot and don't been use the house. This poor poor poor woman had 7 kids. My mum gave her clothes and covers etc. She started imposing herself on us and even hinted at coming to live with us. Can you believe the nerve. Anyway,the point is, the husband was Invisible Man. We naver saw him and next thing we knew,she was parading pregnant to her eyes. With all the trouble she was having feeding and clothing 7 kids, an 8th was on the way. I asked her about it. I had to. I asked her how she was going to take care of this coming kid and where the hell did that kid come from anyway? I was mad. I actually saw her stealing a t-shirt left hanging to dry at our en-face neighbour's!! She looked at me with those sad sad brown eyes and said: "the lord gave."


Festivals, gonna have a great Week.....

According to me, Mauritius has the biggest record of public holidays. No wonder. The population counts hindus, tamils, telegus, marathis, muslims, christians and budhists. Our Rainbow Island boasts of its multi-culturalism and multi-religiousity and everybody living in Peace and Harmony. 

This week, you won't be reading me much cause I'll be on holidays. Starting from yesterday. Yesterday, the Hindu community is celebrated Divali.

Divali is the festival of light, joy and good fortune for everyone. It is considered to be among the most important festivals of the Indian culture and tradition. Celebrating Divali is synonymous of siding with light instead of darkness, of the power of knowledge against ignorance, and of opting for good over evil. Divali or Deepavali, comes from two Hindi words: “deepa” which means light, and “avali” which means row. The words clearly depict the wonderful scene before our very eyes. All these lights are supposed to guide the Goddess Luckshmi who brings wealth, good luck and wisdom on earth.


We ate lots of "gateaux" - ladoo, gateaux patates, gulab jamune, rasgoolah, gateaux mootai. In the evening, we roamed around town to watch the light decorations. I prefer the lamps. Not all those ugly electrical ones which look like no decoration at all to me. Just an ugly mass of haphazard arrangement winking at you.

 
Tomorrow is All saints Day. The Day after, we're celebrating the commemoration of the Arrival of the Indentured Labors to Mauritius.  Thursday is a work day but believe me, no one would go to work. They're pretty lazy, the Mauritians, si vous voulez mon avis.  Am not coming to work either. I have a good reason. Friday is Eid ul Fitr.
 

 
The great Muslim poet Jalal al-Din Rumi sang about Ramadan in the 13th century AD (translation by A.J. Arberry):

"The month of fasting has come, the emperor's banner has arrived; withhold your hand from food, the spirit's table has arrived.

The soul has escaped from separation and bound nature's hands; the heart of error is defeated, the army of faith has arrived.

Fasting is our sacrifice, it is the life of our soul; let us sacrifice all our body, since the soul has arrived as guest.

Fortitude is as a sweet cloud, wisdom rains from it, because it was in such a month of fortitude that the Koran arrived.

...Wash your hands and your mouth, neither eat nor speak; seek that speech and that morsel which has come to the silent ones."

To mark the end of Ramadan, the fasting month, we celebrate. Eid Ul Fitr which litterally means the Festival of the Breaking of Fast.

 

I'll thus be reading you guys next monday... This is going to be very very hard.... Shall miss you all....

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